By Nora P. Calhoun

Hit play. Dim the lights. And try not to tear up when the saxophone kicks in. [Full list of 100 songs available below—organized by year, key change intensity, and "crying in the car" viability.]

Because let’s be honest—the 90s lied to us. Beautifully. To understand this list, you have to understand the holy trinity of 90s longing:

The musical equivalent of dimming the lights and putting rose petals on a waterbed. It is sensual, smooth, and utterly impossible to listen to without swaying side-to-side like a bobblehead.